Me Before You

“You only get one life. It’s actually your duty to live it as fully as possible.”

— Jojo Moyes, Me Before You

Ashley and Oscar exchanged vows at Deerfield Estates in Waco, Texas on February 12, 2022. It was extremely cold that day - freezing as a matter of fact! There were even reports of nearby sightings of snow flurries! But this was not going to change Ashley’s mind about having an outdoor wedding.

Where It All Began…

Ashley and Oscar met online where they frequently talked and got to know each other. Eventually they went on their first date which consisted of watching a movie and then going out to dinner. They continued learning about each other as they fell deeper in love with one another. One day, Oscar and Ashley were visiting a park when “IT” happened - Oscar PROPOSED!!

Oscar’s proposal to Ashley (screenshot of the video)

From the moment these met, it was nothing short of amazing. They both say that the first meeting was truly “just love at first sight.”

A typical date night for Ashley and Oscar involve spending time together watching a movie and enjoying dinner afterwards. These two are definitely meant for each other and compliment each other perfectly! I was fortunate enough to spend time with Ashley on a few occasions before her wedding day. We first met at her brother’s wedding and then later I was able to get to know her more during her senior photo session. I love spending time with Ashley! She is gorgeous, extremely genuine and adventurous - and full of smiles! When she asked me to be the photographer for her wedding, I couldn’t wait to spend time with her again. But I also wanted to meet her fiancé. If Ashley fell in love with him, he must be a great guy that makes her an even better person.

In October the two of them had their engagement session so I was able to get to spend time with them and watch them interact with one another. It was obvious the two were smitten with one another, but it was deeper than that. They truly care for one another. Oscar is incredibly kind and caring and puts others first. He makes sure Ashley, as well as others, are taken care of. He is a hard worker and is passionate about his job within the military. He makes sure he is showing Ashley just how much he loves her through his calm, gentle demeanor. Ashley knows how important his job is and is able to work around that part of Oscar’s life. She admires him for all he does for her, as well as others. She loves how selfless he is. Oscar says Ashley is amazing and so funny. He loves how Ashley loves him and wants him to succeed in all that he does.

October 2021 - Ashley and Oscar during their engagement session

The Wedding…

Oscar and Ashley’s dream vacation is a cozy cabin in the woods with snow falling outside as they’re snuggled up under cozy blankets enjoying a cup of hot chocolate. Knowing this makes so much about their wedding day on February 12th make sense!

The temperature outside was literally freezing and Ashley wanted to be barefoot during the ceremony - which was outside. It was so cold as we waited for the ceremony to begin, however after Ashley and Oscar were in place at the altar it suddenly didn’t feel quite as cold outside. Witnessing the two of them promise to love each other forever took your mind off the weather. What was happening right in front of us was certainly heartwarming!

Ashley and Oscar are truly blessed to have such a strong family support system behind them. Oscar’s parents are divorced, but have remarried. His parents both remarried wonderful people who care deeply for Oscar and Ashley. They sit together, talk together, and just enjoy being around each other. You’d never know they went through a divorce. The amount of respect they all have for one another is breathtaking.

As the day progressed, everyone on both sides of the family just intermingled as if they were one big family celebrating Ashley and Oscar. It was truly amazing to witness. The two of them are definitely made for each other ❤

“A family that supports one another thrives.”

— unknown

Vendors

Venue: Deerfield Estates

Coordinator: Karla McNeil

DJ/Entertainment: Make it Kount

Make-Up Artist: Sam

Hair Artist: Déjà Vu

Bridal Gown: David’s Bridal

Officiant: Pastor George

Other Vendors: Common Grounds

Top Venues for a Fall Wedding in Central Texas

In Central Texas, autumn is a perfect time to have an outdoor wedding. The summer months are typically very hot with temperatures hovering near or above 100 degrees with fairly high humidity levels. The winter months are often too cold for an outdoor wedding. Spring is definitely a great choice for mild temperatures, however rain chances are often high during the spring in Central Texas. The fall months (September, October and November) are considered “the best” months to exchange vows at an outdoor ceremony due to the mild weather which consists of lower humidity levels, temperatures and rain chances.

Considerations when searching for an autumn wedding venue:

1. Variety of Space. The first thing that should be considered when choosing a wedding venue is the variety of the space. Many couples plan for an outdoor ceremony, but what happens if it rains? Are there other options besides an outdoor ceremony under an oak tree? Perhaps there is a covered pavilion or an enclosed indoor space? Is there air conditioning if the weather is warmer than normal? Likewise, is there heat? The more options there are, the better.

2. Size. Another aspect to consider is the size of your guest list. You definitely want a space that can accommodate the size of your guest list so everyone can be comfortable.

3. Look and Style. Rustic barn type venues are so popular right now - and have been for awhile! That look and style is all the rage at the moment, however some couples don’t envision “rustic” when they say, “I Do.” Are you able to envision your dream wedding in that space?

4. Price Tag. This piece is HUGE - especially during a pandemic! What is the rental fee? What is included in that fee? What is the refund policy? Do they offer discounts for certain days of the week or months? How much is the deposit? Is any part of the deposit refundable? Do they offer a payment plan? Get ALL of the details in writing! I have heard so many horror stories from clients that had their wedding date canceled due to COVID and received zero dollars back. Please don’t let that happen to you!

5. Location. Texas is large state with thousands of gorgeous wedding venues! Which venues are conveniently located to you and the majority of your guests? Are there nearby accommodations for those guests that will be traveling to attend your wedding?

6. Equipment. Does the venue have the lighting that you desire? What about sound? After all, this is your BIG day and I’m sure you want to look beautiful and be heard.

Some of my favorite Central Texas wedding venues for a fall wedding are:

• Springfield Hall, Groesbeck - I absolutely love this venue! Not only is it beautiful, but it has so many options to make your wedding day exactly what you have dreamt! It can be rustic, but can also be classic. There is a hall complete with a full kitchen, a covered patio and a pavilion. I have seen weddings take place on the lawn, in the hall and in the pavilion. There are definitely options for inclement weather. Another reason I love this venue is that the lighting is gorgeous! It is evident that thought was put into the layout of the building. As the sun sets it fills the hall with the perfect amount of light. It’s definitely something you need to see for yourself!

• Vintage Oaks Ranch, Axtell - A venue with many decorative items available for use to make your vision come to life! Vintage Oaks Ranch is nestled within mature oak trees which provide a canopy over the outdoor ceremony area. There is a large hall which can be utilized in case there is inclement weather. The outdoor area has vintage trucks, silos, trees, etc. to use for photo opportunities as well. Any space under a canopy of trees is perfect for a fall wedding!

• The Barn, Hewitt - A charming venue for both outdoor and indoor weddings! There is plenty of room inside for a band, dancing and plenty of seating. There is also a bar area with space for drink machines and/or kegs. The outside space is stunning as The Barn sits atop a small hill with a spectacular view of the Central Texas Sunset, complete with a rustic farm truck for unique portraits.

• Wind Dancer Retreat, Bryan - This venue is stunning! It is rustic, yet elegant and unique. The landscaping of the property is beautiful and provides a variety of options for your wedding day including an outdoor wedding pavilion surrounded by large trees and the calming sound of water. There is also a rustic wedding chapel with a cedar entrance, pine interior walls and a fireplace. The colors of fall compliment this property perfectly!

• Common Grounds Waco, Waco - Common Grounds is the perfect wedding venue for those mild autumn nights when you crave coffee and other warm drinks! They have a large backyard area complete with a stage. This popular coffee shop is located near the Baylor campus. There is a parking garage nearby to accommodate all the guests’ vehicles. This venue is typically not thought of when considering wedding venues, however a coffee shop backyard is absolutely perfect for an outdoor wedding.

Gallery of Fall Wedding Venues in Central Texas

The First Look

“Love is when you look into someone’s eyes and see everything you need.”

— unknown

A wedding day can be described as beautiful, timeless, romantic, fun, exciting, precious, emotional, traditional, and memorable.  Some might add that a wedding day can be chaotic, stressed, busy, frantic, and nerve-wracking.  And for that very reason, some couples choose to partake in a First Look Photograph Session either before their wedding day or on the day of their wedding.  

On October 1, 2016 I had the pleasure of photographing the wedding of Kenley Crowe and Joanna Richardson at Common Grounds in Waco, Texas.  They opted for the First Look Session before their wedding...and it was an amazing experience!  Seeing the look on both of their faces as the anticipation built as Joanna slowly walked to meet Kenley was priceless - almost as priceless as seeing the look on his face when he saw Joanna in her beautiful wedding dress for the very first time.  So much emotion.  It was just those two...at that moment...on a day when so many others would be around them on their special day.  

Some might say that a First Look Session ruins the anticipation of the groom seeing the bride for the first time as she's walking down the aisle.  However, I can attest that this is not the case.  Even if the groom sees the bride at a First Look Session, he is still overcome with emotions as he watches his bride walk down the aisle on her father's arm.

I decided to compile a list of the five reasons couples would choose a First Look Session.  Keep in mind, these are just a few of the reasons why some choose this type of session.  Ultimately, each couple knows what they want on their wedding day.

1.  Convenience and Time.  Traditional weddings usually do the bridal party photos, as well as bride and groom photos, right after the ceremony.  They are often rushed as they don't want to keep their guests waiting too long to begin the reception.  The First Look Session allows the bridal photos to be taken before the ceremony so guests do not have to wait for the bridal party to arrive at the reception.

2.  Alone Time.  Wedding days are filled with friends and family members surrounding the bride and groom.  The First Look Session gives the bride and groom a small amount of time to just be with each other before the ceremony begins. 

3.  Reception.  First Look Sessions allow the wedding to run smoothly from the ceremony to the reception.  There is not any downtime due to bridal photos.  This is more pleasant for guests.  Traditional weddings typically have guests waiting an hour or so while the bride and groom are having bridal portraits taken.  

4.  Better Photos.  As a photographer, I feel that First Look Sessions allow me to spend more time with the bridal party.  Therefore, the photos are not as rushed which in turn makes for better portraits.  

5.  Family and Friends.  The First Look Session allows the bridal party to spend more time with family and friends during the reception since they aren't missing out on this precious time after the ceremony taking bridal photos.  

I'd love to hear from you!  What are some other pros of having a First Look Session?

- Special thanks to Kaitlynn Phillips with Kaitlynn Phillips Photography for assisting with the Crowe-Richardson Wedding -