That's What Love Is

“When the rain won’t seem to quit
Darling, take my hand
And we’ll slow-dance through all of it
’Cause that’s what love is.”

— lyrics from That's What Love Is by Alexandra Kay

Juvenal and Myriah exchanged vows on September 14, 2024, under the bright sun at Fuego Church in Marlin, Texas. The warm weather added a vibrant energy to the celebration as family and friends gathered to witness their commitment to each other. The church, with its serene atmosphere, served as the perfect backdrop for their heartfelt ceremony. As they promised to support and cherish each other, the love shared between them radiated through the air, creating a memorable experience for all in attendance.

Where it all began…

Juvenal first spotted Myriah at Pops, a lively bar filled with the clatter of pool balls and laughter. He was drawn to her focus on the game, eager to challenge her skill at the table. Despite her clear intention to wait for her brother, Juvenal’s persistence paid off as he invited her to join him for a quick warm-up game. Myriah hesitated, eyeing the clock to gauge her brother's arrival, yet something about Juvenal’s enthusiasm and charm nudged her to say yes. As they squared off, the casual atmosphere of Pops faded into the background, leaving only the excitement of friendly competition between them.

the proposal…

Myriah was nestled comfortably on the couch, enjoying a moment of peace when Juvenal entered the room, his heart racing with a mix of excitement and nervousness. Dropping to one knee, he looked up at her with sincerity in his eyes and declared his love, asking her to marry him. Overwhelmed with emotion, both of them felt tears of joy streaming down their cheeks as Myriah managed to exclaim a heartfelt "yes." In that intimate moment, surrounded by warmth and love, it was clear they were ready to embark on a beautiful journey together.

As a couple…

A typical date night for Juvenal and Myriah is a cherished routine that revolves around dressing up and enjoying each other's company, no matter the destination. Their favorite evenings often find them at a local bar, laughing and playing pool, the clattering balls echoing their playful banter. The anticipation of competition sparks excitement as they take turns lining up their shots, both skilled and good-naturedly teasing one another. Dressed smartly, they blend the thrill of the game with the warmth of connection, making memories that extend beyond the green felt of the table.

Their relationship can be summed up as affectionate, honest, crazy, imperfect, and family. Through the ups and downs, they share a bond that is rooted in deep respect and warmth, where open communication is paramount. Their playful moments often border on the absurd, reminding them that laughter can be found even in the chaos. Imperfections are embraced, as they understand that these flaws add richness to their connection. Above all, they prioritize family, fostering a supportive environment where love flourishes, creating a unique dynamic that is both comforting and vibrant.

The song "That's What Love Is" by Alexandra Kay beautifully encapsulates the essence of her relationship, reflecting both the struggles and the resilience that come with marriage. Through her heartfelt lyrics, she speaks to the inevitable ups and downs that partners face, acknowledging the hardships that can arise. Yet, there is a comforting hope woven throughout the melody — the steadfast belief that love can endure as long as they face challenges together, finding solace in each other's presence. The imagery of slow dancing through life's turmoil serves as a reminder that even in difficult times, their bond remains strong, guiding them toward brighter days.

surprise!

During their reception, they joyfully announced that they are expecting a baby after a two-year journey of trying to conceive. This wonderful news marks the beginning of a new chapter for them, as they have been blessed with a precious gift from God. May their journey ahead be filled with joy, laughter, and countless cherished moments as they embrace the beauty of family together. Smith Family Photography wishes them a lifetime of happiness filled with unconditional love!

vendor credits

Ceremony Venue: Fuego Church, Marlin, Texas

Reception Venue: Marlin Men’s Civic Association, Marlin, Texas

Cake Artist: Ma Hilaria Garcia

Bridal Gown: Pat’s Gowns, Robinson, Texas

Bridesmaid Dress: Pat’s Gowns, Robinson, Texas

Make-up Artist: Ashely Olivarez at Make-Up and More by Ashley

Groom Attire: Suit City, Waco, Texas

DJ/Entertainment: Drew Tate

Officiant: Pastor Joey Davila Jr.

Meet Mr. and Mrs. Jackson!

Meet Spencer and Cheyenne Jackson.  They tied the knot on January 7th, 2017 at the historic Allen House in Marlin, Texas.  The Allen House was built in 1911 by Dr. Walter Hanz Allen and his wife Nettle Falconer Allen.  Today the house operates as a civic center and provides a unique atmosphere for weddings, receptions, retreats, and many other functions. If you'd like to learn more about the Allen House, you can read more here.    

The historic Allen House in Marlin, Texas.

Spencer and Cheyenne met at his brother’s wedding in 2015. A little over a year later, Spencer popped the question on a cliff at Circle Point in Cameron Park in Waco, Texas.  Cheyenne excitedly said, “YES!”

They had an eventful first date in Waco as they began to get to know one another over dinner, followed by a movie.  They ended their night with a little game that’s native to Wacoans – tortilla tossing off the suspension bridge at Indian Springs Park. 

Spencer and Cheyenne decided to have a small, intimate wedding on the front porch of the historic mansion lit by candles.  The wedding was at 6:00 pm so it was very dark outside, but the lights from the candles and porch lights cast a very romantic, candlelight for the ceremony.  Did I mention it was FREEZING?  It was seriously like 25 degrees outside!  The fact that it was so cold seemed irrelevant because the ceremony was so beautiful…a true love story.

Spencer and Cheyenne's wedding on the front porch of the Allen House.

“A happy marriage is about three things: memories of togetherness, forgiveness of mistakes and a promise to never give up on each other.”

— Sarabhi Surendra

I wish you both the very best!

The Milestone of Turning ONE!

I was so excited for Saturday, August 29th to arrive!  Why you ask?  Well, it all began on June 1st, 2015.

I received a message from a young woman named Myranda.  She was inquiring about a One Year/Cake Smash Session for her daughter.  She explained to me that she was referred to me by a close friend and she actually didn't need the session until August.  This made me extremely happy for two reasons.  One, she was a referral!  This means that her friend would receive a $10 credit towards a future session and that she would receive a 10% discount on her session.  I LOVE referrals!  Two, Myranda was excited about the session that was over 3 months away!  When clients are excited for the session, it just makes it that much more fun.

The week leading up to the session I was busy planning (as I do with all of my sessions).  I was making a list of poses for the session, as well as a list for the possible props I would need to bring to the session.  I make lists for everything...literally! 

One Year/Cake Smash Combo Sessions are really two sessions rolled into one.  They require more time, more planning, and more cooperation.  And when you consider the subject for the entire event is ONE, you honestly never know how it is going to go! 

Last Saturday I arrived at the Falls on the Brazos Park in Marlin, Texas early to begin setting up for the session.  Soon enough the beautiful little one year old, Kadence, arrived with her mother and grandmother.  This was the moment I've been waiting for since we began planning the session.

One Year/Cake Smash Combo Sessions always begin with the One Year Old Session.  Typically the kiddo is more focused at the beginning of the session so this is a great time to get some "posed" shots.  Another reason being that the kiddo can arrive on location dressed in clean clothes with a clean face.  After the Cake Smash portion of the session, they are no longer wearing clean clothes with a clean, smiling face.

Sweet Kadence sitting so pretty for one of her one year session poses!

After the "posed" portrait session, we move on to the Cake Smash Session - which is my favorite part!  It is so amusing to watch a kiddo work through the curiosity of a cake smash session.  Kadence was a perfect kiddo for this!  She sat down with the cake in front of her and she just looked at it, examining it carefully.  I imagine she was asking herself, "Do I touch it?  What will mom say to me?  What is it?  Why is it here?"  Soon enough she decides to touch it and her hands are coated in frosting!  She does not like this too much, but she's not bothered by it enough to stop messing with the delicious cake.  One thing is for sure, she does NOT want to touch it with her hands anymore!  How else do you eat cake then if you don't have a fork?  It didn't take Kadence long to figure out that she could take bites from the cake without touching it with her hands! 

Kadence loved the cake, but not the messy hands!

Kadence sat back up and just looked at us like she wasn't quite sure what our reactions would be.  Of course we all clapped and said, "YAY!"  It didn't take her long until she was bending down for a big bite and sitting up smiling as we cheered her on.  All the cheering put her in the mood to dance!  I have never seen a kid dance the way that she danced!  It was one of the cutest things I have ever seen a kid do! 

After all the eating and dancing, it was time to clean up with a nice bath in the park.  She loved the bath!  I think Kadence had a pretty good time at the park.

Bath time!

Personalized storyboards are perfect at showcasing the entire cake smash session from start to finish.

If you are interested in a One Year Session, Cake Smash Session, or a Combo Session, message me for more information.  If you book a Combo Session, you save money by bundling two sessions into one!

From Teacher to Photographer

What do you want to be when you grow up?  Isn't that the question we ask young adults all the time?   I personally have asked this same question to hundreds of children throughout my thirty-six years.  Over the years I have heard many responses to that question - NFL player, dancer, fireman, teacher, etc.  Growing up my response was always, "I want to be a teacher when I grow up."

You might be asking yourself, if you always wanted to be a teacher then why are you a photographer?  Well, simply put...things changed.

After high school I decided to have a family instead of pursue my dream of becoming a teacher.  It didn't take long for me to realize that I loved my family, but something was missing in my life.  I still had that longing to educate young children.  I began taking classes at Boise State University and in 2007 I graduated with a degree in Elementary Education. 

I left Idaho and moved to Texas for various reasons and began my first teaching assignment at Marlin Elementary School in Marlin, Texas.  I taught fourth grade for three years and kindergarten for two years.  I loved working with the children and families in Marlin!  I found it to be an extremely rewarding career! 

As I began my sixth year of teaching at Marlin Elementary School we received a completely new administration.  They were not accommodating to my needs as a new mother.  At this time I had a newborn and needed time to express breastmilk for my daughter.  The administration told me they could not provide me with the necessary break time to provide this for me and my family.  I then resigned.  I was forced to choose my career - my love of education - or the needs of my family.  I chose my family and it killed me. 

At this very moment in time I realized that a career in education was not all that I believed it to be and I began to search for something else that could be equally rewarding, as well as provide the needs required by my family.  As I thought about possible career paths, my love of photography came to the front of my mind.  I pushed it to the back of my mind because the thought of starting my own business honestly overwhelmed me.  However, the possibility of owning my own photography business gradually seemed to sound exciting.

I have had numerous photographs taken of my kids and family.  Some I absolutely loved and others were just "ok."  I consider myself a pretty tough client.  I have a large family which consists of eleven if you count all the children - mine, his, ours, and the ones we picked up along the way!  There are two major issues with photography sessions I had as a parent of such a large family. 

The Smith Family with two kids missing from the photo.  Left to right:  Lily on the back of Gracie, Bradley, Sadie being held by Ethan, Thomas, John, Anna (myself), and Colby.  Not pictured are:  Anthony and William

One, patience.  It is nearly impossible to get all eleven of us to fully cooperate through an entire photo session!  The kids don't want to be there and it shows.  I would receive the prints and love the concept, but as a family we just looked so...unhappy.  I couldn't feel the love or emotions.  The photographs were just photographs instead of a memory that was captured forever. 

Two, cost.  The sheer cost of photographing a family of eleven is scary!  Photographers seem to have a pricing which is a certain amount for four individuals and every additional individual is an extra fee.  Well, when you have a family of eleven the additional individual fee is astronomical! 

If I was going to have my own photography business, I knew what I wanted to provide.  I needed to provide a patient and carefree atmosphere which would make families and individuals feel comfortable and allow them to be themselves.  People have told me over and over that the session was so easy and comfortable or that they could feel the emotions in their photographs.  Those comments let me know that what I am doing is rewarding.  It gives me a sense of purpose as a photographer.

I also wanted to provide affordable photography for people.  Obviously I can't work for free.  I have business expenses I have to pay.  I don't like giving families a time limit.  I don't like charging additional fees for "additional individuals."  Whether you have a family of four or a family of eleven, you will pay the same session fee.  I have my pricing set up in a way that is straightforward and is affordable at the same time.   

I read a TON of information about photography and business!  After all, I do LOVE education! I seek help from fellow photographers as needed.  I am constantly learning so I can provide the best to my clients.  This is not a task I take lightly. 

Recently I received some of the kindest words after a mother viewed her family photographs. 

“I adore Zachary’s face in their pic together and Vanna’s face in our family picture. It totally captures them! You are truly talented. I think people go through life finding out what their purpose is, and struggling with just a job. It shows this is your passion. And your artistic ability with editing and adding the right elements. I hope you have years and bounds of success. Thank you for taking the time to end our summer on a fantastic shoot. Making memories, and capturing a moment in time when families love each other IS making a difference. We get so caught up in living life, and arguing whose turn it is to do the dishes, and please get off your phone and stop yelling at your brother, that we forget to always say I love you’s, and be kind to one another. Even if just for a second. We did in the photo. - personal message from Misty Rae Bridger (August 2015)”

I made the move from teacher to photographer.  I am extremely happy.  I am looking forward to meeting many more families and capturing many more memories!